F.E.A.R. Forget Everything And Run OR Face Everything And Rise! I read this as a post on Facebook
about a year ago and I re-shared it as I thought it was a great post. At the
time there was more I wanted to say on this but didn’t, for the simple and
foolish reason that I was, wait for it: scared. Scared it was not the
right time; that people would think what I had to say nonsense. Scared that
they may feedback negatively to me in some way. Scared of offending. Whatever
it was I had that fear and didn’t act on it. I simply re-posted it and ran. I
then forgot about it until recently.
Recently I have begun to consider this statement and where I
stand with it in certain situations in life. I have thought a lot about fear
and also about other peoples fears as they often come up in discussion. I’m
sure we have all got many stories of where we have avoided our fears as well as
when we have face them.
I have become curious as to why we give our fears so much power. We ourselves have the choice when faced with something we fear: as it says we can face it or we can run. Of course, there are times where running is
the most sensible and safest option such as escaping from danger. Most of
the time we are not in immediate danger, we are just perceiving it that way to avoid making tough decisions.
Let’s consider this question: where is the power? By running, are we
seizing the power and evolving? No, by running we are actually abdicating that
power, handing it to the thing/person of which we are fearful and giving it/them strength
to grow. Our growth surely comes from the seizing the power, facing the fear
and rising. The clue is in there, we take on that fear, take back that powerand we are strong. We rise and grow.
So how do we do this? How can we move from a culture of run
to rise?
1.
Recognise
our fears- get to know what you are fearful of. Look at how these fears are
holding you back and reconnect with your thoughts.
2.
Recognise
what gives our fears power- the most common one is the news. (I know, here she
goes again). Whenever I have used EFT with anyone and they have cut out the
news from their life, it has made such as big difference. It never ceases to
amaze me the amount of people who tell me they watch the news right before bed
and I ask them do you sleep well, already knowing the answer.
3.
Focus
on strength- We need to focus on positivity, focus on what we want in our life,
how we want to feel. If you have ever worked with the law of attraction you will
know what I mean straight away. What we think we bring about, focus on the
positive and the exciting. That is the growth.
4.
Work
on yourself- Find something to help you deal with your fear. EFT (Emotional
Freedom Technique) is a great one as it allows you to clear the negative
emotion and move on.
Not facing our fears can over time lead to poor physical,emotional and mental health. So, let’s take back that control, don’t give our
fears the power, they don’t deserve it. Instead, thank them for what they are,
an opportunity to Face Everything And Rise.
If you would like to find out more, Ed and I are running a webinar on Tuesday 16th March at 8pm. Look out for more details on Cambridge Family Chiropractic's social media pages.